“Of the Seven Deadly Sins, anger is possibly the most fun. To lick your wounds, to smack your lips over grievances long past, to roll over your tongue the prospect of bitter confrontations still to come, to savor to the last toothsome morsel both the pain you are given and the pain you are giving back – in many ways it is a feast fit for a king. The chief drawback is that what you are wolfing down is yourself. The skeleton at the feast is you.”
– Frederick Buechner
In Ephesians 4:26, Paul says, “be angry but do not sin”. Paul seems to allow for an Anger that does not reach the level of sin. In the Old Testament (notably in the Psalms), God is frequently depicted as angry. In the New Testament, we find Jesus angry as he throws the money changers and merchants out of the Temple. In the Bible, righteous indignation seems to be an appropriate response to offenses committed against God (Ps. 119:53; Mk. 3:5). There is a place to respond in Anger, but this Anger is something distinctly less permanent than deeply-rooted wrath or hostility. We all struggle to distinguish between getting angry for injustice versus becoming an angry person. Anger is needed in some situations of injustice. It is better than callous indifference. So how do we determine if our anger is indeed righteous or sinful? We should ask ourselves these questions:
- Does our expression of Anger lead to love, wholeness (shalom), or healing? Is it building up others and the body of Christ? Are we helping to bring healing to someone or some group that has been oppressed or abused? If the answers are “yes” – then perhaps your expression of Anger is righteous.
- On the other hand, does my expression of Anger lead to division, destruction, animosity, alienation, or separation? This kind of Anger would be hard pressed to be “righteous”.
Paul also writes in Ephesians 4:27, “do not make room for the devil”. When Anger takes up residence within us, we become ‘angry people’. Angry people sow division, destruction, animosity, alienation, and separation.
It seems to me that good people in our society and churches are responding to injustice with Anger. But they are allowing that Anger to consume them and others in destructive ways. We are not always good at using Anger in beneficial ways. Our goal should be to leverage our Anger into love, wholeness, healing, and building up the body of Christ. We all need to stop and ask this question: Has injustice led me to righteous Anger? If so, am I leveraging that Anger to build up the body of Christ? Or, have I allowed that Anger to ‘make room for the devil’ in my life? Good people, motivated by injustice, are right to get angry. Too often, many of them lose control of the Anger. It controls them. The good they want to do is followed by a wake of destruction and brokenness. I pray we can find ways to harness the passion of righteous Anger to build the body of Christ.
Mercy is the quality that stands against Anger. All the Anger words – wrath, bitterness, resentment, vengeance, judgment, etc. – are devoid of mercy. The person who swims in the current of God’s mercy already has a leg up in dealing with Anger. God’s love at work in the world is “mercy”…mercy extended toward friends and enemies, those like me and those unlike me, toward those of every race and tribe. Mercy is a distinctly “God-like” quality.
You may be angry for the right reasons; but be careful that your Anger does not consume you and lead to destruction.